Are extremely simple, yet people try to make them out to be one of the most difficult things out there. This sounds silly coming from an 18-year-old, but Ive had so many insights on so many relationships, and for some reason a lot of people come to me for advice. It’s like this, if you for one second have any doubts that your no longer ” feeling ” the relationship your in, then dont be in it. Life’s to short to be unhappy. But if your completely in love and totally happy, then stay in it. If something bad ends up happening like some one cheats, or some one moves, or something, then who cares move on. But at least you know what you felt was real and you spent that whatever period of your time happy. I feel like you should never hold back one single emotion that you feel or something your thinking. A lot of the time in my current relationship, I find my self thinking cheesy little love thoughts that I have too much pride to actually say them, when in the end, it would probably make his day, or he would probably remember it forever. We need to stop holding back and just let go. Be free, and be happy. If your in a relationship were your not happy, get out of it. If you doubt a quality or doubt any uncertainty of being happy with that person, then dont be with them. It’s not math, it’s not science, its basic common sense. Your gut instinct is usually 99% right, I found this out the hard way :/. Stop being scared of being alone, stop being scared that no one could possibly love you from your past. I belive that when we stop worrying and just start living and not looking for relationships that the perfect one will pop into our lives and we will be happy.
